Dakota has a great rant on a real life BDSM master’s predilection for young girls… Yep I said young girls. I’m not going to actually post a link to this person’s site, because I certainly do not want to generate more traffic for him, and his sick habits.
Having gone onto this person’s site (yeah, I’m nosy) and read some of his journal entries, I have to say, I felt physically sick. Here is one of his less offensive entries in it’s entirety:
“Well as of lately I have been trying to talk on a more personal basis to the owners of the various blogs I link to. Well last night was no exception when I started talking to the owner of rotten broccoli (who says he will blog mor about sm in the comming days but he ultimately blogs about what he wants).
We started talking about why he started his blog when he asked me “you know about the Paraphilia field? “. Well I didn’t. Hadn’t the slightest clue. So I went and did a bit of research on the topic.
It seems paraphilia is a mental health term used (as of 1925) to indicate sexual arousal in response to sexual objects or situations which may interfere with the capacity for reciprocal affectionate sexual activity.
The above defintion was a bit hard to follow so the following definition is taken from health.discovery.com:
A paraphilia is a condition in which a person’s sexual arousal and gratification depend on fantasizing about and engaging in sexual behavior that is atypical and extreme. A paraphilia can revolve around a particular object (e.g., children, animals, underwear) or around a particular act (e.g.,inflicting pain, exposing oneself).
It seems in recent times the definition has a bit more broad of a meaning though. It seems now that in psychology and sexology it is a term used to cover a wide variety of non-typical sexual interests.
From what I am gathering the word is used to explain people whose sexual interests vary greatly and have no relation to one another. The most common ones seem to be pedophilia, sadism (not masocism), fetishes (scat, pee, transvestite, etc.), and voyerism.
There are others however. It seems that biastophilia: sexual pleasure from committing rape, lust murder: sexual arousal through committing murder, necrophilia: sexual attraction to corpses, necrozoophilia: sexual attraction to the corpses or killings of animals, or necrobestiality are signs often found in serial killers.
There is a really nice list available of the different fetishes that fall into paraphilia at www.wikipedia.org
My problem with this, is as usual everything is labeled as a disease. I don’t believe that such a thing as a sexual disease exists. Well this is not actually true there are a few sexual diseases, but few and far between.
The point is, just because society see’s something as being drastically different, doesn’t make it a disease. Ultimately we can pick anything to death until we have a reason. Chances say every sexual kink that exists could be blamed on a disease.
In the western civilization we have deemed pedophilia a disease, other cultures consider it a normal sexual desire as a man. Our culture says bestiality is immoral and cruel, other cultures consider it sacred and beautiful.
Western society is quick to blame anything they don’t agree with as a disease. Murders could have a cromizonal disorder, did you know that resent studies say murderers actually have a disease? Ha! This disease is as old as man because there is not a single trace of ever not having murderers in mans world.
Blaming everything on disease is silly in my opinion. We cannot fix the world, we can only work within the flow of its existance.
So here we are with this disease that covers basically, anything sexual and considered “not of the norm”. I think much of the bdsm world fits into it. I think a great deal of us, myself included, have stories involving a great many of the different philia’s covered by the topic. So you know what I say? Screw it, I am what I am.”
So does anybody else get the feeling that he doesn’t see some of these activities including paedophilia, as a problem? As an example of a real life BDSM Master, he certainly makes it easier for me to stop reading such books altogether.
BTW, he also has a thing for incest stories, plus he’s got two children of his own.
Dakota has a point, maybe he should be investigated…
Eve Vaughn
July 11
1:51 pm
Can you tell, I’m getting addicted to this blog? LOL
I think this man is truly disturbed if he doesn’t see anything wrong with Pedophilia and the other sick s**t he mentions. It’s only wrong in Western Culture? That’s BS. That’s basically the same philosophy as those sickos in NAMBLA. You’re right Karen, this man should be investigated.
Desiree Erotique
July 11
4:00 pm
Oh gross! Eve is right, he needs to be looked into by the proper authorities.
Indida
July 11
6:26 pm
Find him and burn him. When you fuck with children, innocents, I have no sympathy.
There are a standard set of morals that cover the world. They coincide with nature. Murder, raping babies, raping animals, and raping the dead have always been wrong. There are more but that is too much to go into.
The few who cross these morals are considered outcasts in every culture, lots of cultures kill them for it.
My God, it’s common sense if you are in your right mind, which he obviously is not.
Angela James
July 11
11:57 pm
I did a mental health internship on a forensics mental health ward. Forensics meaning the people were there after being found not guilty of crimes committed due to mental illness.
One of the patients had a case of zoophilia. He was sexually attracted to horses but… there was more involved. Anyhow, he WAS sick. It WAS a disease. What he did in the pursuit of sexual satisfaction was not in anyway normal and to say that he wasn’t sick is just wrong and plain ignorant.
Karen Scott
July 12
9:47 am
Eve, he is just sick, and the thing is, he talks about paedophilia as if it’s acceptable.
Desiree, I’m surprsied somebody hasn’t reported him yet. I worry about his kids…
Indida, I really don’t think he’s in his right mind. He also wrote about being incarcerated in a mental institution for a spell, why am I not surprised?
Angie, the law is an ass! And he is one sick mother f*cker.
Dawn
July 12
10:40 am
Oh, God!
It’s unfortunate that there’s no way to track this guy down.
He really needs to be seen to.
I hope that his kids are safe from him and the other sickos out there.
Angela James
July 12
6:35 pm
I forgot to mention, I belong to a parenting board, the one I belong to in particular is for moms of babies born in October ’04, but it’s part of a much larger board.
In the past week or so it was discovered that some sick f**k was visiting the boards and stealing pictures from women’s signature lines and posts and using them on his diaper fetish website. Brianna wasn’t one of them but the sick, violated feeling remains. Babies of moms that I’ve been chatting with since the early stages of our pregnancies, babies that I’ve watched grow up in pictures- they were used for someone’s sick fantasy. My 8 month old daughter is NOT a sexual object and it is NOT alright to pretend as though using her and other babies/children in such a way isn’t sick and disgusting.
God, can you tell this subject just sets me off?
Anne
July 12
7:13 pm
What a sicko.
Rocio
July 12
10:39 pm
Don’t panic Karen…On this one I completely agree with you!!..This kind of things do scare me, because when people start thinking like that it’s a big sign of trouble…I bet when talking about rape and BDSM, being natural things they always picture themselves as the agressors. This is what lack of love do to people, when you don’t love nobody you start to see the world as a jungle!
Karen Scott
July 13
8:07 pm
Dawn, I’ll never understand how people like these exist if there is a God.
Oh Angie, how horrific! I’m so glad it wasn’t Brianna, it would be just so had to try to forget that some sick fuck had looked at your little girl in that way.
Anne, yep!
Ro, if I had the opportunity, I would cut off their balls, and let the bastards bleed to death.
Maven
July 14
3:48 pm
Please, please, PLEASE do not judge all BDSM afficianados by this sick MFu@ker.
I know many “Masters” who would be as horrified as you or I at this man’s statements.
I certainly hope the mother of his children is smart enough to keep them far away from him…
Dakota Cassidy
July 15
4:30 pm
All I know is this–he should be tarred, feathered and dismemebered.
And, Angie? If someone touches a photo of my precious Bri–I’ll friggin’ see him hang at high noon and sway in a gentle breeze.
Dakota